Changing
- Stephanie Tobola
- Mar 13
- 1 min read

Silence my revelation because you are grasping at self-preservation
Memories long ago painted over and rewritten
For you it was nothing but a moment, a passing second
But my trust and world view were shaped through your hesitation
Watching as your shoulders tense and jaw clench
Instantaneously you are on the defense
My thoughts are not meant to spark an argument
Guilt is filtering my every word into offence
So, I hold my hands up making my point and keeping my calm
Under the rug sweeping is how to keep history repeating
Round and round we go like the refrain of a song
Purpose getting lost with our voices competing
Heels dug deep into your mound of justifications
Family is family not to mention the cultural expectations
What happens at home stays at home, or so the saying used to go
I hear you, I promise I do, and I understand all the explanations
Times were different
Acknowledging that fact is easy
I am not sitting here blaming or seething
History is history. I’m just asking you to join me in changing
We must be willing to learn from the past
Allowing each generation to be better than the last
Things unspoken will forever remain broken
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